In intensive care, facing surgery, radiation and chemotherapy for lung cancer, my siblings and I were encouraging our mother to quit smoking. She was being wheeled outside, to smoke, and they werebringing her oxygen with her. Since we were meeting with the physician, in her room to discuss treatment, we were sure we would be supported and perhaps buy a bit more time.

The doctor's response was "It's too late now - let her enjoy her last pleasure in life".

I never wish that upon anyone's children to experience.