Thank you all again. I have found this hospital caregiver network most UNhelpful. In fact, today, I got a call while touring a nursing facility that the doctor and caregiver wanted to leave work at 4 for family reasons and I was to return immediately. They told me that they would release my mother to the nursing facility and I needed to arrange and pay for independent travel to the facility. I asked what they would do if I were not there? No response. I rushed back to the hospital and no one was there.

I have been most impressed with the two nephrologists I have met, but unimpressed with the rest. Her primary care physician doesn't even return calls.

I put off leaving until Monday, due to the fear of neglect for her. She has a terrible stomach infection and must visit the toilet often and she can ring the bell for 15 minutes with no one responding. If she is not out of there by Sunday, I will insist that she be moved.

On the most positive note, this trip enabled me to get to know Donna and Alan. I feel that I have now made the acquaintance of two wonderful folks and look forward to being able to reciprocate their kindness on a return trip to Tucson (or NY). :lct: I find it fascinating that this board seems to collect the most wonderful folks...you all know who you are and Doug and I are glad to know you. Thank you RSSC and Ngaire.