I feel your frustration, Andi. Don't blame you one bit - this has been an emotional roller coaster and frankly, the care coordinator that should be arranging the discharge of your mother is doing a remarkably poor job. As you have said, if you feel that your current hospital/nursing facility is doing a poor job, you SHOULD insist that she be transferred (assuming that her insurance covers other nursing facilities) :( Hang in there ... many many caring thoughts in your direction.

Masaki