Wendy - I second the thanks for starting this thread. I need all the help I can get and it's never too early to start thinking of what to bring and wear.
Wes - Jim's list is great. Very simple and concise. Plus, I love his idea about the 16 inch satchells to save on weight for both check in and carry on. Anyway we can travel lighter will be wonderful!!!
I've read from almost everyone's posts that the ladies should take at least 2 bathing suits. Mostly because it takes awhile for them to dry. Did you find that to be a problem Wendy?
Being a totally A/R person, I've started a folder with "What to Bring/Wear". I'll go thru it and will soon post good ideas I've run across. No time today.