Wendy, I'd love to share the shark and ray feeding with you guys! Hope it works out that way. I understand what you mean about David - I've been bombarding Tom with question, after question to get a feel for what he'd like. I think he's just been saying "That sounds nice" to get me to shut up <img border="0" alt="[vhappy]" title="" src="graemlins/icon_vhappy.gif" /> . But SOMEONE has to worry about all of this :D He always lets me plan the entire vacations we go on and he's usually happy with it.