Along those lines, may I ask a question...?

I tend to "snub" the rules a bit, but in the opposite direction...I am really curious to know...and you won't hurt my feelings...does it bother anyone when you see someone who dresses up MORE than the dress code for the evening? The only comments I have had from others is "oh no, I thought today was casual...did I not dress up enough" when they see me dressier than is called for.

The last think I would ever want to do is make anyone feel uncomfortable, and I have never thought that others felt put out by my desire to get gussied up...but perhaps I am wrong.

...just curious.