Oooops! I told a lie. Joan's birthday fell during our PG cruise. We had the birthday dinner in the suite, had forgotten to do anything to mark the occasion - made a clandestine call to the butler and asked for anything that might resemble a birthday cake (I suggested a cupcake with a candle - what a guy!). After dinner, Nengah arrived with a magnificent chocolate cake with "Happy birthday Joan" and lots of candles and a bottle of Champagne. This was above and beyond.