Also, I prefer soft sided luggage, I can't even pick up hard sided when they are empty! Since they weigh about twice as much as soft sided, you are using one of your alloted 50lbs of luggage just on the suitcases themselves. I just make sure I pack of the smashables (shampoo, etc) in the carry on.
Pat, Ngaire has a forumla on another post that helps you determine months in advance how many formal nights there might be on your sailing.