Thanks for everyone's well wishes and suggestions. I've been too brain dead to log on recently. :)
Luckily, no more brink of tears for me. Still hanging in there with the breastfeeding. We see the lactation consultant tomorrow.
We were thinking about buying a bouncer but our carseat can rock so we've decided to hold off on that purchase. Swings are still okay, it's the walkers that are no-nos now. Luckily, it's been easier to put her down lately (knock on wood).