LeeAnne: Those of us who have been there, done it... are all laughting over your 2 lists!

Masaki:

Andi & I did Utah a number of years ago & loved it. While I can't give you any restaurant or lodging recomendations (been too long), I can tell you to do Deer Valley. We loved it for the well kept slopes & what has been said above. Park City was a very close 2nd.
Snowbird was a more rustic & challenging site. At that time it was a wee bit above our skill set.
There was a 4th site. I cannot recall the name. It, too, was more Snowbird like than Deer Valley.

Enjoy It.

Doug