Joanne - are you going on the July 16 sailing? I have some clients, who are also good friends on that sailing - it sure sounds interesting! We were on the Maasdam last spring out of Norfolk, and had a great time! Its a more smallish ship feel, and if you can try to go to the Pinnicle at least once - its worth the $20per person charge, very good, very nice service, quiet atmosphere, and excellent food - we went like 3 times. have a great time!
And, I'm sure your post was very encouraging to LeeAnne, it was inspiring to me - going thru the issues with my daughter, to keep the faith and keep thinking positive, somehow, someway things will work out.