Doug, last time I was planning a trip there, (late 80's?) I bought a book called "The Unofficial Guide to Disney World" They still print it, but the online link is
http://www.touringplans.com/tp2/UG2_index.php?PageID=0 Others more familiar with the parks can tell you if it is a good one, but I found it very helpful for finding more "Adult" dining spots, as well as all sorts of crowd avoidance strategies.
