This is the great thing about Disney. There is something that is right for everyone.

Didn't know if you saw the current discounts:
http://bookwdw.reservations.disney....W_ChoicePage_FY10Q3Summer RoomGetDetails

I've also stayed at the Ritz Carlton Grande Lakes - very nice. The JW Marriott shares the property as well. Not yet tried but, the Four Seasons also has had some attractive pricing and is adjacent to Disney property.

One other thing to consider would be using Starwood miles at the Swan (Westin - queens or king) / Dolphin (Sheraton - doubles or king).
Even if you pay cash, they have some of the benefits of a Disney property at a much more friendly price point.

Best wishes for a great trip!