Lynn:

I like your attitude. I think you could have co-authored the following:

There will be little rubs and disappointments everywhere, and we are all apt to expect too much; but then, if one scheme of happiness fails, human nature turns to another; if the first calculation is wrong, we make a second better: we find comfort somewhere.
Jane Austen, Mansfield Park
English novelist (1775 - 1817)

Cheers! Ray