I certainly appreciate all your input. Very kind of you to try to assist us. Technology is great but when it does not work it is SO frustrating.

Ken did "something" to my machine today - changed the outgoing mail server to our internet provider instead of using our domain hosting outgoing mail server. (That is what he said mumbo jumbo to me) and I was able to send to cox.net today.

Richard the problem here is that my emails would never get to your machine to be cleared. They are being blocked way before they hit your approved address book.