Gotta speak up.
Earning and a sence of value is the baisis of todays society.

One of the largest problems today is persons expecting things they have no comprehension of.

Giving a child a luxury vacation that many have saved and worked for all their lives distorts that childs value system to the max. if they start at the top then any thing they can do as adults will be, in their eyes, failure.

If a child starts at the top... what does he have to look foward to...... nothing. This brings on greater dispair in later life. Well meaning parents try to give too much instead of imparting a value system. This is what a parent is supposed to do..... give direction and support.

By giving too much too soon we create frustration and anger later in life. Give them the world and what will happen to them when they can not acheive better...../????

It is like raising a child on Caviar and lobster as normal fare. How can the poor child understand and appreciate them. He can't. not possible...and a terrible diservice to them..this is the seeds of frustrstion and suicide in young adults who got it all.....with nothing left to do , at a young age what else is their in life drugs..rebellion. In most cases yes.

It is only for the satisfaction of the adult.....at the expence of the poor kid.......let the child grow to appreciate the value of and experience that he acheived.....How fill the child grow if he gets it all as a child. how will he prove himself to his parents as worthy of their approval. Which all Kids want.

The value of somthing given for free is just that...nothing...zero..nada..zip.

As a parent is critcaly important to help the child grow....not create your best little buddy to marvel at your good taste and fortune...... Come on....smell the roses and start at the bottom and work up..... you owe your kids that.. you owe our society that.... y6ou owe it to yourself.