I have also become almost compulsive about travel after losing many people dear to me too early (60's) in the past few years. Plus my dear mother when she was 86. Had I known cruising in her last 2-3 years, I would have had her with me in a minute, and she would have loved it. Just go, if you are so inclined, as it doesn't get any easier than making the one phone call. Freddie, looking forward to cruising with you and Pat! (As well as Joanna again, Pam on PARTY and ROAR, and Don for whatever he decides!