LeeAnn, I echo the sentiments already expressed here. My experience has been that my best rewards, experiences and opportunities have come from after some of the worst times in my life. So, there is light at the end of that tunnel.
As far as children, raising teens is hard. But, look around you, LeeAnn. See all those adults with jobs living fulfilled lives? They were all teenagers and many had problems with behavior or school. They made it and so can your kids.
Joann, thanks for sharing your story. I'm happy that life is good for you now.