Margo, I'm so sorry to learn of the loss of your dear friend and beloved pet on the very same day. My heart goes out to you.
I'm so grateful for the hospice movement. One of my best friends died in 1992 before we had any local hospice residence but one of the local hospice agencies provided care for her in her home. I spent 3 days a week with her during her final 6 weeks and will always treasure those memories.