Margo, Know what you are going through. When John was diagnosed with "agressive" prostrate cancer in April; we thought it was the end of the world. I researched day and night on websites. Finally selected Mayo Clinic in AZ and John had his prostrate removed via robot. We will go back every 4 months for check-ups. He is going back to work tomorrow. You are being prayed for as you read this. It is a comfort to know that others are with you in thought and prayer. There are alot of websites you can google to read what others that have been through this have to say. Stay positive and don't lose hope. Judy and John