Jeanine, my husband is a "loner" also. Just not very social. Sees no point in making conversation with people he will never see again. We don't drink much, and that fuels much of the socializing.....you may ask, then why do we cruise? Well, its a great way to see particular ports, and enjoy entertainment/meals as a couple. We were able to get a few great deals on SS and Rad., but his tolerance for cruising is limited. If the price is REALLY right, and we visit places he really wants to see, and we haven't cruised for at least a year, he may make the effort to go and have a good time........everyone's tolerance for superficial socializing is different, and his is low. I must admit, I find it difficult to make small talk as well.

My one experience with posting on a board (not this one) and meeting upwith people on a cruise, was not good. I felt like we were the "out" couple and there was an "in" group. That was not helped when one couple in the "in" group had a big party and did not include us.....sometimes you are better off just enjoying yourselves, and not making an effort to join others except for occasional dinner or excursion conversation.

bon voyage on whatever trips you take! :p