My suggestion on the 7-day cruise is to book a table for two in Le Grill for the first day you're in Bora Bora. That means that the ship stays in port, so you're floating in the lagoon. I like Le Grill, it's very romantic, although don't expect the food to be as wonderful as L'Etoile.

Everybody is supposed to get one "kick at the can" in each of the two specialty restaurants, so don't worry too much. I'm trying to find out what the special "captain's welcome" menu might be, since our second night is that overnight in Bora Bora, and I love the romantic dinner (might do it in Rangiroa instead this time, since we overnight there too.)