Tobias was on Voyager when we were (along with Jamie and Dana, although we saw more of her so I tended to call him Dana's husband). At the SSS party, there was one guy who kept trying to get a much bigger serving of caviar; during his argument, Tobias slipped behind the table and dished himself (I guess) up quite a large serving. The guy said "look, that guy got more"! Tobias just looked at him and raised an eyebrow, then walked away.