Morning tennispretzel. I am certainly no RSSC expert but I can answer your 4 questions.
1. Yes there are two irons and ironing boards in the laundry rooms.
2. There is no extra charge for the specialty coffees, they are free.
3. Our Giants Select Host tour drove us through the botanical gardens. They are beautiful but you could see where several trees had been sheered off by the hurricane. You'll probably notice a difference from your last trip.
4. Unfortunately none of the restaurants open before 7:00 p.m. but you can check the pool area as usually there were pre dinner canapes and snacks being served out there.