Hi Debbie - I've found everyone on this site so friendly and helpful, especially as originally I thought it was only for people from the USA. I understand what it's like to have a husband who doesn't want to travel with me (well anywhere there aren't fire stations or oil refineries - not too obvious on a cruise) but I envy you as you are so much braver than me because I find the thought of going by myself too daunting. So next time you find yourself nervous in a crowd (whatever the size) think of me and pat yourself on the back for being there in the first place!