Ngaire,
Yes,Ken may have had lunch with 11 ladies, but it's not the same! The harem ambience plus it's benefits and golden goodies far surpass just lunch...Although I wish I had been there - always looking for new harem members of superior quality, - I do not begrudge Ken his moment in the spotlight. The man is a saint!

I do not know what you've told Julie about the Sheik, suffice it to say, her learning experience will be most enjoyable....hehehe...