Bette; Tom and I just returned from Royal Hideaway in early May. If you would like to email me I will be happy to send you pics and give you more information on the resort.

It sounds like what you are looking for as we are not nightlife folks either. The suites are very beautiful, nice large pool as well as other smaller more quiet pools, the water was a bit rough when we were there, but the ocean floor was pure sand. Their food was very good to excellent.

As far as hurricane damage everything was rebuilt and replaced - foliage is a bit sparse, but will grow back quickly.