Thanks all!

I'm leaning toward flash memory.
The flip is a nifty little camera but too low featured for what she wants, I think.
B&H is good. I actually prefer J & R. Every time I check they seem to be a bit cheaper. Both are good stores to deal with, tho.

I'll check out all of your recommendations. Thanks again.

Doug

PS: looks like we're going to add a side trip to China on Dragon!