There are many good resorts and islands out there and they aren't full of young people wearing a size zero. If you are in search of beaches and restaurants head to Antigua. A number of all-inclusives if that's what you like, but if not, there are many other choices as well. Everything from a Sandals (an AI with four restaurants and four bars)to Curtain Bluff (Classic continental cuisine and a more mature crowd). Good luck in choosing!
Trish