Thanks for all the good wishes. Just applied for a position that would NOT require a commute, and I really think it would be a great fit for me. (In other words I really want this job!)The gallbladder comes out Thursday. So far they think they can go with outpatient surgery - praise be. Hopefullly this is the start of very good things - thanks in advance (and in reflection on things past) for thoughts and prayers. You all are the best!