If you are interested in seeing the daily Reflections newsletters that show the activities for each day or the lunch and dinner menus, the two men at this site blog each of their cruises. They generally take a penthouse and you can read about what to expect from your butler in the blog also.

http://www.jetsetenterprises.com/

I don't believe they have ever done the crossing from LA to Hong Kong which is mainly sea days, but I think you will get a general idea about the Symphony from their blog.

By the way, I can't say if this will be your experience, but when we specify to air/sea the flights we want (if they are not their regularly scheduled ones), we generally pay $100 per person for the deviation fee. I generally do it because I prefer non-stop direct flights rather than stopping and changing planes. I just don't like taking chances on connections or sitting and waiting in airports.