Dear Sue,
I've always told my kids "make it a great day" and they are finally getting it. We all have the ability of mind over matter - it is just a little harder at some times than others. You obviously know this to be true and are asking for support from the right group. Collective prayers, positive energy, whatever you want to call it: it's a powerful force in the universe & it is coming your way!!!
My best thoughts and prayers for you!
Peggy