My son is also a "nice young man" today....now that he is 30 and married and has a mortgage. When he did his graduation thing, he "fell" over the fence between the hotel and adjacent miniature golf course! (So they could play mini-golf) at 2 in the morning! Unfortunately, they got arrested, held overnight, and now I tell him he will NEVER get a job that requires a high security clearance, because he did not make his "call" and let me help him get legal assistance. Every family has a story, if not, they are very, very lucky.