I hear ya Colleen. But here, unlike other places to post on this topic, I think it's more than just cruising. It is more, well, almost familial. Even after my recent canacellation I knew I wanted to keep coming back here and see what was going on. Sure I sometimes feel a twinge of the cake thing, but I know my time will come. I hope to see you all over the boards, Colleen - this is a very convivial bunch.
Convivial, just looked that up...yeah, in my mind companionship...enjoying feasting and drinking fits perfectly...LOL...